Some things other than sex that your man wants.
- Say something complimentary on a regular basis.
Make sure it’s a GENUINE compliment. As in, don’t say something nice if you don’t mean it. For example, don’t say that you’ve noticed he’s gained a ton of bicep muscle when he so obviously hasn’t. Instead, take a step back and really observe your man… see what you like and what you appreciate, and say it! Pretty simple, but love doesn’t have to be rocket science.
- Respect him unconditionally.
Most women will only give a man respect once he earns it. While this is rational, giving your man respect FIRST will not only encourage to act more chivalrous and caring around you, but he’ll also love you for it as well. Respecting him means that he’ll be willing and wanting to respect you as well… and what woman wouldn’t want that?! By doing this, you’re effectively creating a positive feedback loop… the more respect you give, the better he acts. And the better he acts, the more willing you’ll be to give him the thing that he wants more than anything!
- Stop yourself from lashing out at him.
I know it’s hard to do, but by lashing out and belittling your man, you effectively force him to be repulsed by you. In a recent study, 75% of men admitted that they feel like they are unsure of themselves. You may not feel like your man genuinely thinks this way, but men are brought up in a society to “be a man” and that if you don’t live life in a particular way, that you are somehow less for it.
So when your man makes a mistake, the way for him to fix that mistake isn’t to make him feel like less of a man… the best way to get him to change a certain behavior is to support him.
- Show respect using your body language.
Touch him during heightened states of appreciation. That means that when you compliment or support your man, hold his arm or hand when you’re doing it. By doing so, you give the immediate impression that you mean what you say. You’ll also condition him to associate your touch with feelings of love and admiration… and this is totally based on science!
- Remember your manners.
This seems like a little thing to do, but if your man goes out of his way to do something for you, thank him. Say sorry every time you’ve done wrong to him and you know it’s your fault. You’ll be shocked and amazed when you realize that he’ll start treating you the same way in return.