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- She Never Calls or Texts First
- When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call, you’re wasting your time. You’re allowing her to treat you in a way that is less than you deserve. Just because she texts back or answers when you call doesn’t mean you have to be OK with it. When she KNOWS she doesn’t have to make an effort because you’re going to keep calling and texting first, it strokes her ego and makes her feel better about herself.
- She Takes Forever Call and Text Back
- If you call or text and she ALWAYS takes hours to get back to you, and you know she isn’t insanely busy, then you, obviously, aren’t important to her – especially if her phone is always glued to her hand. When you sense you’re not a priority, call and text less often or just stop contacting her. If you mean anything to her at all, it’ll catch her attention and she’ll move you up on her priority list.
- She Only Calls and Texts When She Needs a Favor
- Women “use” guys for drinks, rides, and “help” with things they can do themselves. Once you’ve helped them, they magically disappear. You may think helping her out is the “nice” thing to do, but you have be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” becomes a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!”
- Women charm you, hug you, use their “princess voice”, tell you how much you mean to them, and pull the vail over your eyes so you don’t notice they’re using you. Some women don’t even carry money with them because they know they can talk some guy into buying them whatever they want.
- She Keeps Cancelling Plans and Dates
- When women are actually interested, they don’t break plans. If she’s cancelling but keeps agreeing to go out, she’s playing games and wasting your time. If she cancels more than 2 times, just tell her you’re no longer interested – it’ll get her attention very fast. Stop with the “Ok, that’s fine.”, “No problem”, and “I understand…” responses when she keeps cancelling. Have some respect for yourself and tolerate anyone wasting your time.
- She Chooses Her Girlfriends Over You
- When you’re low-priority in her life and ALWAYS choose her girlfriends over you, she’s playing games. Once in a while, it’s no big deal. It’s good to let her have fun with her friends without being a control freak, feeling left out, and feeling like you need to be part of the fun. Encourage her to go out and have a girls night. But if you’ve known her for a while and she’s choosing her girlfriends over you more than 50% of the time, then you need to confront the problem or walk away.
- She Acts Different Towards You Around Others
- The minute she starts changing her personality or how she treats you when others are around, that’s when it’s time to make your exit. WHY she’s acting different doesn’t matter – seeming embarrassed or like she’s hiding something is enough to know she’s wasting your time and playing games.
- She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”
- When she pulls the “we’re just friends” nonsense, that’s when it’s time to shut down your feelings and emotions for her. It’s clear she’s not into you the way you’re into her. Start seeing other women and if she has a problem with it, tell her, “But we’re just ‘friends’, remember?” Don’t play the “friends” game with anyone. Don’t allow women to friend zone you.
- She Always Needs “Time”
- When she acts interested but always refuses to advance the relationship because she needs “time”, give her all the time she wants – meaning that you’re not going to waste your time “waiting” for her. Simply tell her, “Take all the time you need. I’ll be over here dating these other women until you can learn how to make decisions like a grown up.”
- She’s Always Busy
- When she’s always too busy for you, the solution is very simple – you’re, all of a sudden, too busy for her as well. Two can play that game. If you’re not worth her time, she’s not worth YOUR time. Don’t make it complicated. She says, “I’m sorry. I can’t. I’m just very busy.” and you reply with, “OK. That works perfect. I’m too busy for people who are too busy for me.”
- She Won’t Take Pictures with You
- She’s either embarrassed to be seen with you or there’s some guy she doesn’t want seeing your pictures with her. Awesome stuff. If she’s on the FBI’s Top 10 list, it’d make more sense. But if she’s not, then she’s simply playing games and hiding something.
- She Constantly Talks About Ex-Boyfriends
- It’s obvious when she’s seeing you but still involved with her ex. If she was actually interested in you and care about losing you, she wouldn’t “risk” talking about her exes too much. But if she always talks about how “mad” or “irritated” her exes make her, then you should tell her to contact you once she’s “over” her exes, not under them.