The holidays are a time when a lot of folks meet the parents of their significant others for the first time, which can make things even more stressful than they already are. Well, now Dating.com is offering some advice on how to know whether the time is right to meet the parents, and what to do to make a first impression.
The site notes that 54% of people say they’ve introduced a previous significant other to their parents too soon. So, how do you know when is the right time? Well, the site suggests three key signs:
- You and your partner have decided to be mutually exclusive.
- They show interest in learning more about your family and continuously asks how they are.
- They get along great with their friends and coworkers.
Now, once you’re going to meet the parents, first impressions are key, so the site suggests:
- Don’t come empty handed– A small gift for your partner’s parents is sure to make a good first impression. Something like flowers, a candle or maybe a bottle of wine.
- Dress to impress– How you look is going to go a long way towards that first impression. Dressing nicely will let the family know you are taking this introduction seriously.
- Come prepared– Talk with your S.O. ahead of time to find out all you need to know about meeting their parents, asking them questions about what key things could help you in your interactions with them.
Now, once you’ve made that first impression, there are some obvious mistakes to avoid if you want them to continue to like you, including:
- Control the amount of PDA– Parents are bound to be uncomfortable watching their child kissing too much at the table.
- Avoiddrinking too much– While it’s fine to drink a little, you’re not out at a party or a bar, and it’s never smart to get too tipsy at the occasion.
- Don’t bring up controversial topics– No one wants a debate at the holidays, so stick to topics that will keep the peace, and avoid arguments.
Source:Yahoo Finance