The weeks between Thanksgiving and New Year’s are a mad rush for most people, but when you have kids and a job, the over-scheduling, guilt, and unmet expectations can take over. We feel bad for missing school programs and events because of deadlines and meetings and we rush around to make it to all the extra commitments and activities we can, on top of our normal hectic lives. But the upside is we’re in charge of our time, we can survive the busy holiday season, and these tips can help.
- Rein in the gifts- Forget trying to find the perfect present and when you find an ideal small gift, buy a dozen and give to neighbors, coworkers, and such. There’s no shame in the same-gift game. Draw names for extended family or just exchange for kids since we all have too much stuff anyway.
- Just say no- You don’t have to accept every invitation you get to all the parties, events, and get togethers. Cut yourself a break by saying “no” more.
- Do what brings you joy- If making and sending out holiday cards totally stresses you out, it’s okay to stop doing them. You can always do New Year’s cards or even Valentine’s Day cards instead to take some pressure off while you’re wrapping up year-end at work.
- Give up on trying to perfectly plan everything- Rather than scheduling everything you want to do during the holidays, leave some time to enjoy the magic of the season. And when you do have the inevitable holiday stress-induced meltdown, try not to freak out. Life isn’t what we see in the picture-perfect, InstaChristmas posts and if you’re with family and you feel good, that’s what it’s really all about.
Source:NBC News