After the break-up these are the things you are NOT to do!!

If you're going through a breakup, don't do these dumb things.


Get Too DramaticThe one thing on what not to do after a break up is that you should not get too dramatic. During post breakup, you should avoid listening to sad songs. Try to imagine that you are in your bed and listening to some sad songs such as” Love Lost”, “Un-break My Heart”, “ Break Up” and other sad songs will just make your situation worse. Instead, you should listen to cheerful and optimistic songs in order to improve your emotional health and help you overcome what you think that you have lost. Similarly, romantic movies are like onions and you are cutting them open when you watch these movies. Do not watch them as them will make you hurt.

Pretend That You Are FineAfter a failure of a relationship, let yourself mourn, cry, scream. Let’s honor your bad feelings as it will be the necessary pace for you to move on rather than holding it inside. To be sad, angry, hurt or humiliated is normal. Perhaps, you are also worried that you will never feel happy again. You need to let all of your emotions out. Surround yourself with your best friends. You should not prevent that you are not affected by the breakup. Let’s be honest with your emotion.

Talk Bad About Your ExWhen your ex decides to go on without you, you should act as a reasonable person by not giving his or her details to the world. Never go about talking about your ex’s disadvantages as this just demonstrates you as a bad person. You are indirectly lowering your standards and sending a bad message about yourself whenever you talk bad about your ex. Besides, talking bad about the ex also makes you look like a loser as losers always criticize other people when they cannot get what they want. 

Sleep With Your ExThe fact is that sex will never bring him or her back to you, so you should avoid letting the other sleep with you. The only thing you need to do is to extract your ex completely from your life, get time to heal yourself and get the space to move on. Sex with your ex just draws you back at the time you would like to move on. In fact, sex is never the people’s final need in a relationship because sex is not all of the things.

Change Your LookBreakup can make you sad, but it can be a good chance for you to make big changes to your life, and at first to your look. Making positive changes is welcoming, but making drastic changes in your look could make you regrettable in the future. The major changes such as inking tattoos, shaving your hair, dressing overly to attract all the attention will not solve anything. Instead, in case you have to make a change, let’s make the necessary changes to add value to your personality, not just focus on your look.

Wallow In The PastAfter breakup, you should not stay idle; instead, get busy with anything else. You can try reading a book, learning something or making new friends. As a matter of the fact, you should avoid getting too much thought about the ex; for example, what they are probably doing now, what they used to do in the past, how they are changing without you, etc. This will not help you give up the relationship easily. As long as you are not on a date, you should open your mind to worthy things that will make your life better.

Beg Your Ex For A ReturnIf you are curious about what not to do after a break up, begging your ex for a return is considered as one of the worst things you should avoid doing. As you know that in case your ex decided to end the relationship, the begging, pleading or even using pity will not get him or her to come back to you. Perhaps, you do not understand why your relationship ended, or you think that it ended because of the wrong reasons. Instead of losing your hope and begging for a comeback, you should find a friend who can help you overcome this hard time.

Try To Be FriendsIt is difficult for two people to make a change from being lovers to normal friends. And in fact, a break up leading to a solid friendship is very rare. Therefore, in case you are trying to forget someone or until you are fine with your ex dating someone new, you do not need to try to be pals. Keeping friends straight after the separation of your relationship goes along with having sex and this will not give you enough time and space to get it over properly. Right now, you are not looking for a friend who broke your heart.

Seek RevengeYou should not destroy his possession, key his car, or do something that could put you into legal troubles. The thrill of revenge just feeds your bitterness and hate and this will not heal any of your wounds. Instead, you should forgive, accept to get a new start without him, and spend your concern on other people who deserve it. Therefore, seeking revenge is one of some worst things on what not to do after a break up

Try To Communicate With The Ex Every DayThere will be times you need to communicate with your ex. For example, you need to return his possessions, deal with a shared possession. However, calling or texting like the time when you were still dating is the thing you have to stop at once. This is a kind of stalking, so if he or she is not calling you back, you should hang up the phone as you get better things to do. After a breakup, many people feel lost not as they miss the ex, but as most of their daily habits once involved in someone else

.Stalk Your Ex On Social MediaSocial media can be a danger when you are trying to deal with your heartache. Follow two important rules. Firstly, you do not post anything related to your breakup drama. Secondly, you do not resist the urge to keep stalking your ex. Nothing good can happen when you stalk your ex on social media. You will see nothing that makes you better and you will just overanalyze everything she or he posts and then drive yourself crazy. Instead of this, you should de-friend or at least hide your statuses.

See Old Texts And PicturesThese happy days are over, so you should snap out of it. Looking back at your old texts and pictures will do nothing, but make you feel sad and wonder why and how all things went wrong. When you get a break up, delete all of the texts and pictures, or place them into a box and keep it out of sight and out of mind.

Give UpThe ex was not the one. The ex made you feel like you have nothing. You should not let a breakup destroy all of your hope and future. Alternatively, you go on taking care of yourself, refocusing and pursuing the things you have loved to do before. Besides, you can learn a lot from the end of relationship. Never give up meeting where you can find your perfect match. At this time, you can need to say thanks to the wrong relationship ended to bring you to the right one.

Rush Into Another RelationshipEveryone gets the different ways to overcome this time, but you should give yourself a little time to heal your wounds. While some researches show that rebound relationship is not always doomed, it will be important to realize that you have completely moved on first. After all, you will not want to get a relationship with someone who still miss the ex, will you? You give a new relationship a try, but in fact you just use new boyfriend or girlfriend to fill a void that he or she will not able to fill. It is unfair and to be honest, you will be the a**hole.

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