How you sleep might gives clues about your relationship!!

Even the way you sleep can say something about your relationship.


When we consider sharing a bed with a partner, we're probably thinking about sexual situations. But what happens after the sex? Our body language when we're sleeping says a lot about our relationship. Is your sleep position saying you can't get enough of the person in your bed? Or that you want nothing to do with them? We asked a few experts.


Spooning is very intimate, requires trust, and only 18% of couples have adopted it. "The big spoon typically feels protective of the little spoon, and is more common in new relationships because people tend to gain more independence the longer the stay in a relationship. This is not for a selfish sleep style like the starfish or a stiff one like the soldier," says Sarah Brown, sleep and wellness expert with Mattress Firm. Typically, free fallers and yearners fall into the spooning category.

The Face Off

Something that you maybe have done when you were just getting serious with your partner but it's abandoned by most after time. "It's that position which satisfies those couples that can't get close enough to one another sleeping in an embrace, cheek to cheek with legs intertwined. Very important to have a hybrid mattress for all side sleeping so you have something that contours to your body for comfort and gives you the support you need at the same time!" says Mark Quinn, cofounder of Herobed. Once the shine is off the apple in the relationship, couples usually retreat to a style that is less invasive but still says, "I love you honey."

The Loose Spoon

The loose spoon has the same protective feeling as the closer spooning position except it allows for a little more freedom in the relationship. "The trust is still required for this position but for couples who are a little more mature, it offers a better night's sleep," says Brown.

The Chasing Spoon

"When one person wants space in bed and the other wants more attention, the chase is often a position they end up in. 20% of people claim to drift more to their corner, which could mean that they need more space in the relationship or that their needs aren't being met," says Brown. This coupling typically involves a yearner and someone who enjoys the fetal position or the log position.

The Tangle

Couples who tend to tangle together facing one another all night can be a little bit too dependent on each other. "It's a very intimate position that is even rarer than spooning, signaling the desire for sexual intimacy. However, staying in this position the entirety of the night or sleeping this way for months at a time signals an unhealthy dependence," says Brown.

Liberty Lovers

Couples who sleep back to back without touching typically have a healthy relationship. "It signals that they have a healthy amount of independence and are secure in their relationship. This position is one of the most popular among couples with 27% of them sleeping in the liberty position. These people are usually yearners, fetal sleepers, or log sleepers," says Brown.

The Nuzzle

"When one person sleeps with their head on the chest of their partner and entangles their legs this is another protective and trusting sleep position similar to the spoon," says Brown. It is most common between rekindled romances and signifies a passion in the relationship — so hopefully you also know your sex positions, not just your sleep positions.

Space Hog

Only 3% of couples sleep this way but if you are selfish out of bed then you are probably selfish in bed. "Sleeping with a space hog should be a red flag that the relationship is not equal. Typically one person sleeps like a starfish and they other is forced to sleep in fetal or another position that takes up little space," says Brown.

Butt to Butt

This happens when couples may have had an argument, gone to bed a little irritated with one another, but don't want to totally separate from their partner. "You can turn your back on your mate in a show of defiance, but make sure you are touching in even the smallest way just to let them know the love is still alive," says Quinn.

Sleeping On The Edge

Your bed just isn't big enough so you find yourself sleeping on the very edge of your mattress. "For this style your partner probably wants nothing to do with you when it comes time to get their sleep on, and they want their space to be undisturbed. Or, you could have screwed up in a major way and your partner is trying to get as far away from you as they can without taking the drastic step of sleeping on the sofa," says Quinn.


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