She gave you her number: what can it mean?

What it means when you get a girl's number.



If a girl gives you her number, there’s something about you she likes. Maybe she thinks you’re funny or cute and wants to get to know you better. Or she sees a potential friendship. The point is, she likes you and wants to learn more about you. Giving away her number as a sign of affection is a longstanding practice with girls. It’s their way of saying, “you intrigue me and I want to know why.” Ideally, she gives you the number without prompting. But even if you ask for it, it’s still an indication of regard and curiosity. Plan on giving her a call or text in the next few days to chat or set up a date.


If a girl gives you her number, she may want something from you. She may want to network with you or ask for a favor. She might want to borrow something from you, or inquire about a mutual acquaintance. Whatever the reason, she wants to talk to you in the privacy of a confidential phone call. If this is the reason she’s giving you her number, you’ll know. You two will have brushed over the topic she wants to discuss. She’ll say something like, “let’s talk more about this later” or “give me a call, and we can work out the details.” Fret not; you can still use the opportunity to get to know her a little and find out if she’s open to dating.


If a girl gives you her number, it may be out of simple flattery. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re interested in dating you and it doesn’t necessarily mean they aren’t. It could be that she’s flattered but doesn’t have enough time to decide how she feels about you. She may get bored, pulled away by her friends, or have to leave. She may have been flattered and uninterested, but too nice to say “no.” It could be a basic case of being too drunk. There are many situations in which a girl can fall down the flattery slide.


It may seem obvious, but If a girl gives you her number, it might be because she wants to go on a date with you. These days, some girls might say, “Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, email, or Tweet me.” An older girl will still give you her number. It’s the fastest and most direct way to planning a date, and she knows that. She saw something in you she likes. She wants to spend more time getting to know you. The next step is to text her suggesting a time and place to meet. Or, you can call her to set up the date. Don’t wait any longer than two or three days.


If a girl gives you her number, it could be because she feels pressured. She may do it out of peer pressure – Her girlfriends are telling her to. Maybe she hasn’t made her mind up, so she gives in to the pressure and hands it over. She might do it out of time pressure – She must leave and can’t make up her mind, so she hands it over. Or she does it out of coercion from you. Whether you realize it or not, you might be a little pushy. She feels like the only way she can get you to leave her alone is to hand it over. So she does.


Occasionally, If a girl gives you her number, it’s out of force of habit. This is more common with older girls as they relive the follies of their youth. They get caught up in the moment, enjoying the praise and attention. Before they know it, they’re typing their number into your phone despite having a boyfriend at home. Unfortunately, if this happens, you’ll have no idea. And the girl could be well-meaning and only later realize she’s made a mistake. She might be honest and fess up when you call, or not answer at all. All you can do is act as you usually would; call, leave a message, and hope she calls back.


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