You know that feeling of wanting to commit to someone, but they’re stalling the process like crazy! It’s easy to point the finger at ourselves, but that’s not always the case.
Thanks for laying out these reasonsBustle:
- They’re Not Where They Want To Be In Life- Because they haven’t landed that dream job, they feel like they can’t give you EVERYTHING. Once they check that off,they’ll be back for ya!
- They Don't Believe Their Parents Would Approve Of You- Mom and dad still have a say even though we’re older. How can we possibly like you if we can’t happily bring you home to them?
- They Still Want To See What's Out There- We’re young and got our whole lives ahead of us, so we’re not rushing into that lifetime commitment of marriage.
- They Don't Really See You As Someone They Could Spend Forever With- Let’s keep it a stack...you’re not boo material for them. AND, that’s okay. Find someone who thinks you are.
- Their Lifestyle Makes It Hard For Them To Commit- If you’re an artist and you get random gigs, it’s hard to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t understand that lifestyle. If you typically work on holidays, that’s another thing to adjust to.
- They’re Insecure- If you’ve been cheated on in your past couple of relationships, you’re probably going to believe that your next boo will do the same thing to you.It’s by default.
- Commitment Really Isn't For Them- Some people just prefer the bachelor life with several people. It’s a thing.
Don’t always point the finger at yourself first, it’snotalways you!
Source:Bustle